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It has been shown over and over again that the most amazing pheromones stories that you are likely to hear come from a certain type of individual, and it does not matter the sex, or sexual taste of that person, they all show the same characteristic, and if you have it, pheromones are guaranteed to be amazing for you as well. What is that characteristic you ask? I'm afraid you are going to have to read a little more so that it will make sense when I tell you.
Pheromones truly are amazing, they do remarkable things, and I personally believe in them 100%. Yet a certain number of people that use them feel they don't work or they don't work very well. Why is that? If you are considering purchasing pheromones I think it is in both of our best interest for you know the reason.
You hear so many great stories about pheromones and what they have done for others that expectations can be high, and normally if a person gives the pheromones a chance they achieve those expectations. However a few people do not take the time to figure things out.
A great deal has to do with those expectations. Possibly people don't realize that pheromones are a tool, not a magic potion, even though they do seem pretty magic sometimes. With all tools you need to understand them and have realistic expectations on how much can be achieved with that tool. I could sell the finest automotive tools in the world to an Australian aborigine who has never seen a car before, or been out of the wilds. How good of a mechanic would he be with those fine tools?
Over the years I have seen a common theme from the people who are disappointed with pheromones. Usually, I will hear disappointment from one out of every thousand users. It usually goes like this, "Your Pheromones don't work. I wore them every day for three days and my husband showed no interested in me!" Or, "I was wearing pheromones and my buddy was not, and the girl I wanted chose him over me what gives?"
A little digging usually reveals something like this, the woman who was trying to use pheromones on her husband had cheated on him. Even though he was still with her he was not responding to her sexually. So, she was trying the pheromones in hopes of getting things back on track. The young man who lost the girl to his friend had liked her since they were small children, but she never liked him.
If someone does not at least lean towards liking you, pheromones will not make them like you.
If you are in a relationship that is full of problems, pheromones can arouse, and they can comfort, but they will not change the root problem or feelings that arose from said problem. Even if a person becomes aroused and acts upon that arousal do to pheromones, it does not mean your problem will be gone.
The answer may not be popular but here it is, Pheromones don't change you, they enhance you. Put a brand new Ferrari red paint job on an old ford truck and you will not have a Ferrari, you will have a beautiful red Ford pickup. It won't go any faster or haul any more but, it is still greatly improved.
Pheromones quite often fail when they are used in an attempt to seduce one particular person. You know, that girl you have had a crush on since you were in 3rd grade. Or the guy that you are best friends with but he never puts a move on you. Sometimes it does work just fine, but many times nothing.
Let's look at it this way. Take 100 men or 100 women depending on which it is that you would like to attract. Out of that 100 people five will be attracted to you sexually right now, just because of who you are, and five are going to dislike you, just because of who you are. The other ninety people are going to be somewhere on the scale between like and dislike, with the center of the scale being indifference.
Now, let us add pheromones to the creature known as you. The scale will change, the five that don't like you still won't, and the five that do like you will now really like you. The five above the five that like you will now consider you more likeable sexually and the five above them will be less indifferent and the entire scale moves up. Don't make the mistake of thinking this is a minor thing. It is not. Of course your baseline attractiveness both physical and social will change these numbers up and down as well. It is not a guaranteed five people on each end of the chart, that number is theoretical and can go up or down depending on you.
Example: If we compare two people such as, Brad Pitt and George Bush, how different do you think their 100 person attraction chart would look, maybe a little different for like and dislike? They are definitely not going to be the same, and yet both of these people are famous.
What about you? Compare a version of you that bathes one time per month against one that bathes every day. Or one that never brushes their teeth against one that does. Or one that is a jerk compared to one that is witty. How is that attraction chart going to change? I hope you are getting the point.
On top of the numbers above, you never know when a person that would like you is having a bad time in life. They may be sick or have received bad news; their dog may have just died or who knows what. If you are a man attracting women you also have the menstrual cycle to deal with. As a woman goes through the cycle of ovulation she will be increasingly attracted or repelled by strong pheromones depending on where she is at on that cyclical timeline. So, don't let it shake you when someone is not interested.Don't ever take it personally.
When you are wearing pheromones you will receive reactions that range from subtle to very strong. You will receive more attention but people are not going to throw you down, strip off their clothes, squirt baby oil all over themselves and start pretending that you are a slippery slide. People have inhibitions and they are not going to leave their spouse, have public sex, or do anything that would be to wild, crazy or detrimental to their wellbeing just because of pheromones.
Pheromones will make things more comfortable, they will allow interest and arousal, but this is only going to progress further if the person is available, or conversation reveals that you are compatible etc. If you have nothing in common and nothing to say then the pheromones can do no more for you.
This is one for both men and women to consider. Even though tests have shown that pheromones do increase your physical attractiveness by interfering with a person's ability to judge you by looks alone they will not change a person's tastes. The most extreme example that I can think of is this one. You are a guy that likes tall big breasted blond women. Let us say that you run into a short dark skinned man who is wearing attract men pheromones. What are the odds that you are going to fall for him? Are you going to say, "Well, it depends on how good a cook he is." Or, "What is he wearing?" Your answer is going to be NO! Why, because he does not fit within your acceptable range of taste and no amount of pheromones is going to change that. It has nothing to do with this man's style, personal hygiene, how funny he is, or anything else. He would be a dream incarnate to another person whose tastes he did fit.
Sometimes things just don't fit. The person you want may not want you. Don't freaking waste time crying about it, being upset with yourself or them, move on. This is a numbers game and pheromones increase your odds drastically. However, nothing happens if you're hiding out playing play station or doing some other equally alone time sort of thing. Guess what, if there are no people around, you're not going to attract anyone. Besides, you will have to meet quite a few people a day before you make contact with the ones that will be on the attracted to you end of the 100 person attraction scale discussed above.
Also, consider the fact that where you are trying to use pheromones will have a great deal to do with response. If you are at work, (Sexual Harassment) in church (God is watching you), at the library (No talking allowed), at a funeral, (Do I really have to explain this one?)These things are going to influence whether people are going to talk and flirt with you, pheromones or no.
I see many people a day that I'm attracted to but I can't approach everyone and let them know. Life just does not allow it. There may be many people attracted to you that can't tell or show you. Always act like this is the case because there is a good chance that it is.
Remember way back at that start of this article, I mentioned that there was a certain type of person that always seemed to have amazing results from pheromones. No matter what sex or sexual taste they were? The trait that all these people share is that they tend to flirt a lot. I don't know what flirting means to you but I heard a definition that I liked, though I don't remember where. It went like this, "Flirting is attention without intention."I think that is very accurate. People, who make eye contact, smile, say hello, they are approachable, and it is easy for the people who find them attractive to let them know. If you are a closed shy person who sits in the corner or wanders off alone, and can't even look someone in the face, how is anyone ever going to get near you? They smile, you look uncertain and look at the floor, everyone feels weird. You're done.
People who already flirt can feel the magnification of the attraction, because of the flood of people that they suddenly see trying to communicate with them, and that is the secret. If people are trying to communicate with you in any way there is a reason. Pheromones do affect people but they can't make them any better at approaching you. So, if anyone makes contact in any way, be open to it. Assume that they like you and make it as easy as possible for them to show it. People who flirt are open, people can easily come to them and freely show their feelings. So, they suddenly have much more opportunities. This is the root of the great pheromone stories that are told and the reason that pheromones work so well for some, and so poorly for others.
Another thing about good flirts: They flirt with everyone, men, women, children, young, old, fat and even thin people. Everyone is a potential friend.
I know what you're thinking, "What if a person is not a flirt?"Even if a person does not flirt they can learn to be more open and approachable. Put on your pheromones as this will make people more likely to approach and be comfortable talking with you. Make sure that your body language is not saying stay away from me. If you are scary, people simply will not risk it.
Practice looking people in the eye and smiling. Don't be shaken if they don't smile back. Try smiling at them like they were your best friend. Pretend to smile at someone you really like and see how your face feels doing this, memorize that feeling and then use it on strangers. Practice with people who don't frighten you, like children and older people. Then work your way up to everyone. You will be surprised how people will light up when they see you, and the pheromones will help you the entire way.
Pheromones can make a good relationship better. They can increase intimacy and communication and yes make sex more frequent and fiery. They can be the deciding factor when someone is trying to figure out if they want to be, or should be with you or not.
Over time people who originally did not have a good response with pheromones do show a steady increase in their success. It appears that this occurs because of the amount of interaction that they get with other people slowly increases, and the wearer by gaining more practice time with social interactions becomes more skilled with people in general raising their social status making them more desirable and thus more rewarded when dealing with people they desire.
No matter how you look at it. Regular cologne and perfume at best smell nice. Pheromone colognes and perfumes actually do something life enhancing.
The pheromone is not magic but sometimes it sure feels like it.
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